Writers Ask: Should I be on social media?
When we are embarking on writing, we need to have a safe harbor in which to rest. I am a huge fan of cultivating a sense of safety into our writing practice. Whether that’s disconnecting from the news, taking refuge in your friends and family, keeping a day job to protect your financial safety, or yes, staying off social media—all of it is incredibly important to protecting your practice and yourself as a writer.
Writers Ask: Is my work “literary” enough?
The problem with the hand-wringing over what is considered literary and what is not has everything to do with the power dynamics and who’s talking to who and almost nothing to do with what the work actually is. Agents and editors who are trying to convince the powers in place to buy your manuscript so everyone can get a big pay out are going to use terms that remind the powers that be of money. Commercial, page-turning, bestseller material, book club pick… in other words, upmarket. When it’s awards season, these agents and editors (and now publishers) will take that same book and suddenly begin selling it as brilliant, wickedly talented, sparkling, a great American novel, a story of our times… in other words, literary.
Writers Ask: How can I find a writing group?
Behind every great writer, there is a writing group.
No matter how talented the writer is, how confident their writing sounds, how they seem to have been born with all the good words ready to go—I promise you they have at least one person—if not a whole group of people—they rely on for feedback before their work ever gets to an editor’s inbox. Look at the acknowledgements of their books; all those people they’re thanking that aren’t editors, agents, or family members? Yep. Writing group.
Writers Ask: I believe in myself. Why can’t others?
Everyone has to start somewhere. Nobody is born with a book already written and a publishing contract to boot. Every successful author had to experience exactly what you’re experiencing right now. Oftentimes, the only thing standing between publishing and not publishing is just whether or not the author is ready to give up on their work. There are thousands of editors, thousands of agents, thousands of publishers and literal billions of readers that all come with their own subjective tastes. You just need to convince one person at a time, and often the most important person to convince is yourself.
Writers Ask: How many pieces do you produce in a year?
Some years are just more productive than others. Some years you’re not relocating your life. Some years you’re not writing a novel. Some years you’re feeling pretty good. Other years, you’re low in the lowest lows of rejection. Just last November, I was wallowing and complaining to my husband about how I’d had nothing published that year. That was less than six months ago. I’ve had two stories and two essays published since. I am in the middle of a very good year and I am going to take this year and run with it. I am going to celebrate as much as I can because next year, or even next month, may not be nearly as good as right now.
Writers Ask: How do you muddle through the middle?
If we are writing, we are always in the middle of the book. And it’s always a slog. The wheels always spin but the point is they spin. Good stuff becomes shit stuff becomes good stuff again and you just have to show up and trust the process. Everything looks different from day to day because you are different from day to day. You are evolving with your story.